Stay in faith and walk in love. Luck of focus is a huge problem. Be fully committed to whatever you are doing. Do not be look warm. Be passionate about what you are doing. You have to love what you are doing to be able to give it your best. Worrying is useless because worrying will not solve the problem. Stay focus do not do things that are useless. God has got to be first in your life and everything else will be added unto you. Joy and happiness comes from within us and not from what we have. Be patient and wait on God.
The only way you can truly control how you are seen is being honest all the time and be yourself.
Love can cause no harm to your neighbor and so love is the fulfillment of the law. Romans 13:10